In fact one of them is a friend of mine and he flat out stated that he preferred a woman who (and I remember almost exactly what he said because it wowed me so much considering the types of girls he always dates lol) said "If it were up to me I'd rather have a woman who's a size 18 and comfortable with herself than one who is a size 6 and always obsessing about her weight." So maybe it's as much about self confidence for some men as it is about the weight issue.
I think everyone has their specific likes and dislikes; it's not wrong or right..just is. What about the song about a big butt woman1 everyone has differnt taste.
) I think that while guys don't like to admit when they have non-mainstream tastes, there are a significant number out there who find a broad spectrum of women attractive or who have fetishes for particular things that others might find unattractive.
Tuesday, August 29, 2006, AM I know men who are attracted to heavier women who hide the fact because they get ribbed by their buddies.
Thursday, December 27, 2007, AM Yes, but its not socially accepted I think many men - maybe not most but a good percentage of them - find heavier women attractive.
Men like the large breasts and butts that come with a larger package.
He says that if i were to gain the 50llbs again, and be as confident as i am now, he would still be attracted to me. If you are confident and are comfortble with your body, others notice this and flock to you.
Thursday, December 27, 2007, AM 6"20 SOme meat on their bones doesn't have to mean fat in general.
What i was meaning to say, was i personally think its about confidence!
I have never tried to analyse why, I always notice bigger girls more than thin girls and I find them very very sexy. His cousin, also white, likes a girl with a BIG butt. The extra 10-15 lbs we women think we need to lose, most guys don't care about.
Sunday, January 07, 2007, PM I think that if a man can look past the physical things and when he falls for her he will be just as attracted to her as he would a skinnier woman. I wanna lose 15, the bf likes me just the way I am.
Having said that, don't take that to mean that men are shallow pigs.
I am naturally more attracted to men of average weight than overweight men. Yes, it might make our breasts and butts bigger, but I would rather let my body exist in the healthy form it is supposed to be in.